“Alcoholism was a lonely business, even though we were surrounded by people who loved us. But when our self-will had driven everybody away and our isolation became complete, we commenced to play the big shot in cheap barrooms. Failing even in this, we had to far forth alone on the street to depend on the charity of passers-by.
“We were trying to find emotional security either by dominating or by being dependent upon others. Even when our fortunes had not totally ebbed, we nevertheless found ourselves alone in the world. We still vainly tried to be secure by some unhealthy sort of domination or dependence.
“For those of us who were liek that, A.A. has a very special meaning. In a Fellowship we begin to learn right relations with people who understand us; we don’t have to be alone any more.”
Twelve and Twelve, Pg. 116-117